Can someone save me a copy?

Power and Control video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLlXXt6WNsM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3exzMPT4nGI

would also recommend the Macho Paradox

http://www.respect.uk.net/data/files/booklet_for_male_victims__2010.pdf

I would recommend Evan Stark’s “Coercive control: how men entrap women in their personal lives” and Lundy Bancroft’s book: “Why does he do that” but Jackson Katz’s stuff is also fantastic.

Research done on male victims actually shows that male victims more readily report abuse than women and are more likely to state that it is the perpetrator’s fault than female victims who often blame themselves, the evidence also indicates that many male victims (though obviously not them all) are actually perpetrators mascarading as victims.

The Strathclyde Task Force to tackle domestic abuse (where the police pro actively target serial and serious domestic abuse offenders) have targetted 300 offenders, 298 are men! 99.4% have been men, 0.6% have been women – almost an anomoly.

Women’s abuse of men should not be acceptable but it should also not be seen as a mirror image of men’s violence against women because it is very different!

This article is not about whether it happens to men or not but about the brutal torture of Sam Stobbart who committed continued acts of serious harm towards her and their child and murdered her partner. Moat is a monster, to deflect his monstrous acts into “men are abused too, is horrendous and inhumane.

This was not necessary though. There is nobody here saying it doesn’t; you’re derailing a discussion about what constitutes the vast majority of abuse like this, which is man on woman violence between intimate partners. Your point was totally unnecessary.